Zijing

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And you need to control your irrational thoughts and concnetrate on the future and making this a great relationship for you both. It is difficult because it is all about control adn you cannot control what happened in your partners past and you cannot control what thoughts are in his head now, but you can control YOU.

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She doesn't have much respect for you, buddy, and there are many girls out there who you could do better by! frankly, I'd dump her.

He did go quiet but he also said 'no' as I did, so isn't that assurance enough between us that it is friendship only? What do people think? But is there no way I am worrying about nothing?

This is probably true, although choosing not to settle down is a valid choice.

Sometimes, you just need to say "enough."

Lets have sex, send me pics without clothes on firs.

Finding out why someone cheated is a great sidebar, but it sounded like the OP was expressing his frustration with people who seek to condone and justify cheating. To some degree, human beings are motivated by self-interest. Two words: amoral narcissism. It takes a strong person to talk-the-talk and walk-the-walk. When somebody else does something clearly wrong, we want to throw the book at him or her (rightly or wrongly). But that's not the same as acting egotistical and selfish. But when the shoe is on the other foot, people use every trick in the book to avoid taking personal responsibility. I tend to think that one's culture and environment has more to do with behavior than brain chemistry.

Which amazed me because I had settled down. They aren't my friends anymore. Go figure. I remember years ago after disappointment after disappointment in the love department I met really wonderful man. It's a strange thing, people don't want you to be happy even if they say they do. But that's happened to me, another form. I brought him to a party to meet some friends, and the two gals who were my friends immediately stopped speaking to me. They both wrote me scathing hot emails telling me about all my faults and how they didn't like me anymore. They were jealous, even though one had a bf that she lived with for years and the other was married.

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