Fresh Fredny

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Am i just reading too much into this or do I just go out with her and try to have much fun as I can? I was asking questions and she kept on talking the whole date and I listened, she was sharing stuff about her family, friends and our conversation was very light and fun. During the date I was reading her levels of interest, I was a bit put off at first because she kept on checking her cellphone. I haven't talked to her since last night, and I'm still contemplating whether go out with her again or not. I told her jokingly to put it away and then she did. When she got home she told me she enjoyed our conversation yesterday night.

You probably don't have any real world concept of saving and prioritizing purchases because you grew up with parents who didn't instill that in you. Again, that's probably because he's financially responsible.

Off the record, of course...

If it's a school or certain work situations, you will need to do a little detective work to see where he goes socially after class or work before you can approach. If he is interested, he will ask for your number or hit on you. If he doesn't respond favorably, move on to other options. As a woman, there's almost never a reason for you to subject yourself to the type of humiliation you are describing. Just talk to the guy, stand close to him, after a certain point, touch his arm, smile, flirt, keep eye contact a bit longer.

Have time for work, time for play, time for yourself, and time for the relations. Funny that she said, slow down..and you are asking us what to do...its simple...S....L....O....W.....D....O...W...N. The Key is balance.

username42, there's a first time for everything.

I think you should read the the thread in it's entirety.