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Her whole face will sometimes becomes red when I'm near her, she'll fidget like crazy and she'll sometimes act like a random third person is suddenly the most interesting thing in the world. I now know she's been with her boyfriend since she was a teenager and so has zero experience with adult courtship rituals, this has given me some more confidence so I don't reflect her nervousness as much as I used to, but it still seems like a power struggle at times, depending on who's sitting/standing, who walked up to who and who's in a more confident mood. Since then it's gone back and forth like this for a couple of weeks: she'll open up and tell me very personal things (quite often things we have in common) when for some reason I can get her alone and talk for a while, but she does have boundaries and I'm certainly not running around doing favors for her or begging for her attention so I know I'm not friendzoned. She will sometimes glance at me, sometimes looking down when I look back. We'll also have lively discussions about politics and our ideals and views on things (we have a lot in common even if it's not exactly apparent on the outside). On the bad days she will kep a physical distance from me, on the good days she'll let me get close and will smile. She's usually pretty outgoing but I know she has a nerdy/dorky side to her (I'm the same) that she doesn't like showing in public, or really to anyone at work, even She'll often keep her arms crossed and can't keep standing still, even when I make her laugh (which I do a lot, but it's not like she'll laugh at every lame joke). But otherwise she'll come talk to me maybe once or twice a day, always starting the conversation with something work related, sometimes I do wonder if she really needs my help with those things (that she could have emailed me/found the answer herself/held her question for some other time) but that could just be me seeing ghosts.
added by Knighting for Lecheng on 13.02.2020 in 13:45Don't see how he is being immature, you should just move on. This, it is only fair. He gave you a chance and you didn't take it. Why should he be obligated to give her another chance? I don't think he is being insecure, I think he is just being decisive and putting his foot down *shrugs*. You had an opportunity to be with him, but you passed. There is nothing wrong with that, so why is anything wrong with him passing on you now? Even if it is because you turned him down before, which it probably is, it just seems like you are upset because now you are the one attracted to him and the tables have turned.
added by Flameflower for Lecheng on 17.02.2020 in 10:32Without granny this would be an amazing pic, really cute bait
added by Evangelium for Lecheng on 12.02.2020 in 21:01gotta love volleyball
added by Wolpert for Lecheng on 14.02.2020 in 02:15she likes that rose color
added by Maybell for Lecheng on 12.02.2020 in 08:38Would you allow your wife to do this? When you are in a serious, committed relationship, there is comething called GROUND RULES!!! and wow for her to completely blow off your feelings, is just not right. What if she was your wife? Give me a f'ing break! She sounds immature in my opinion! Tell her to get a clue or take a hike! You don't just fly across the country to hang out/drink with a guy friend with your bf back home.
added by Uncurable for Lecheng on 08.02.2020 in 06:26He is obviously not very secure in the relationship and with himself and that's what you have to work on with him. Anytime a loved one is exposed to others of the opposite sex, there is a threat of abandonment so that may be another issue he has. The bottom line is he considers your friends to be a threat to him. A professional counsellor will have to do that. Try to make him feel secure but be firm and let him know that this is childish behavior and you seek a MAN for a companion. His self esteem isn't what it should be so have him work on that. It sounds more like immaturity than jealousy. Insecurities usually spring from childhood experiences and you are probably not qualified to go into that with him. After all, if the guy himself doesn't think that much of himself...how could you possibly think that much of him yourself. You've got to get him off the jealousy kick. He obviously has no feeling of your committment to him. What he doesn't know is when you finally pick up on the fact that he feels so insecure and has such a poor self image, you will start thinking less of him too.
added by Druzeta for Lecheng on 14.02.2020 in 07:25Looking for my DARK knigh.